Cultural diversity in Indonesia is
something that can not be denied. It is because Indonesia is archipelago and
has many different cultures. Sometimes, people who live at their religion must
out from it because immigration, process looking for the job, searching
knowledge or get an assignment to go out from their religion. Those activities
give them possibility to fall in love and get married with person from another
ethnic.
Getting married with someone from
different culture is something usual nowadays. Every people around the world
are definitely different. So it does not matter if we want to get married with
someone from different culture. It is because the basic purpose of get married
is unity differences. We can mention easily marriage from different ethnic. For
example Javanese person who get married with Sundanese. As we know that Javanese
and Sundanese have different culture but when they decided to get married and
live together, they have to minimize their differences and understand each
other. That happens because of love in their heart. We can see that some members
of our family can live harmony although they are marrying someone who has
different culture. Meanwhile some people said that marrying someone from
different culture will make our household lack of harmony. Our marriage cannot
survive long. Nevertheless harmony in household does not influence by it. The
keys to keep our marriage everlasting and full of harmony are love, respect and
understanding each other. Difference does not matter if we have love in our
heart. Love united us in our differences.
Married someone from different culture sometimes
is unable to avoid when love had lodged in heart. Besides diversity culture that can not be
denied in the world, Our God created us different from each other too. It means
that we will marry someone who has differences with us. Marrying someone from
different culture does not matter if love had lodged in their heart. Getting
married is merge differences between two persons.
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